Today I’m going to let you in on a little secret…it’s not hard to get and stay fit. It’s not about hard work and deprivation.
It’s all about boundaries. Let me explain…
When you were a child
your parents set boundaries around you. They were the authority on what was or wasn’t acceptable behavior. You had to complete
your chores before dinner. You had to finish
your homework before going out to play. You had to eat all
your vegetables before dessert.
If you failed to comply with these boundaries then you knew that there would be consequences.
As an adult you, and
only you, are the authority
on what is or isn’t acceptable behavior. You are in the position to set
boundaries around yourself. These boundaries serve as a framework of
order around you – a rock of support in an otherwise chaotic world.
With self-imposed boundaries you can assure
your success in anything…specifically with weight loss.
Your fitness boundaries have to be
self-imposed—no one is going to do it for you. Don’t look at this as a
bad thing! Self-imposed boundaries are self-empowering.
Let’s face it, you’ve been living
life without fitness boundaries.
- You eat whatever you want, whenever you want it.
- You use any excuse to avoid exercise.
- You indulge whenever it feels good.
Your Fitness Boundaries
It’s time to introduce boundaries back into
your life. These boundaries are the key to unleashing
your ideal fit and healthy body.
Fitness Boundary #1: What you eat
If you were to be perfectly honest with me, you could list off the foods
that are unhealthy and fattening. So why are you still eating them? You
know that refined, fried, processed and sugary foods are not good for
you.
Place boundaries around what you will allow yourself to eat. Acceptable
food items include whole foods, vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and
lean meats.
Fitness Boundary #2: How you exercise
I know that you’re not an Olympic athlete, but that doesn’t mean that
you can simply pass on exercise. By now you are well aware of the host
of benefits that exercise provides. With regular exercise you’ll look
great, feel amazing and have more energy than ever.
Place boundaries around how often you must exercise. Choose exercise
that is challenging and fun – don’t be afraid to try new activities that
improve
your strength and endurance.
Fitness Boundary #3: When you indulge
Let’s face it, we live in a world where indulging has become the norm, rather than the exception. When you live
life without fitness boundaries, everyday is an opportunity to indulge. These indulgences all add up quickly, causing
your clothes to become tight and
your energy levels to drop.
Place boundaries around when you can indulge. You’ll find that by limiting
your indulgences you’ll end up enjoying them even more.
Putting It In Action
Sit down and take a long, hard look at
your lifestyle. Are you eating as healthy as you could be? Are you exercising 3-5 times each week? Are you indulging too often?
Answer the following questions:
- What 3 food items can I eliminate from my daily diet? (These should
be nutritionally void items like high-calories beverages, fast food,
packaged snacks, high-fat food, candy or desserts.)
- When can I schedule exercise into my week? (Pick 3-5 days, and
select a specific timeframe. Example: I’m going to exercise on Monday, Wednesday and Fridays from 5am-6am.)
- When will I allow myself to indulge? (Don’t go overboard here,
especially if you need to lose weight. Enjoy a treat a couple times each
month, and do so guilt-free knowing that you’ve maintained healthy food
boundaries the rest of the time.
Remember that self-imposed boundaries are self-empowering.
Fitness boundaries put
your fitness results on
autopilot. If you know what constitutes an acceptable meal, then
choosing what to eat just got a whole lot easier. If you’re committed to
exercising 3 times a week, soon it becomes second nature.
Need help setting up
your fitness boundaries? I am here to help – call or email me now!